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At the core of our blogging efforts is a drive to chronicle what we do as parents — our missteps, our frustrations and our triumphs. We’re better parents because of this blog and the connection it gives us to other parents.


Expecting Baby Arvman No. 3

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What better place than our family blog to announce our growing family? Andreas and I are so excited to finally share our happy news: I'm three months pregnant with Baby Arvman No. 3, due in August. [more]

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Playing with my girls' toys a parenting perk

This cooking set I recently bought at Target for my girls has become another favorite of theirs. And mine.

My daughters have long since graduated from rattles and baby blocks. They're finally old enough to play with things that I kinda wanna play with, too. Tea sets. Doll houses. Toy kitchens. [more]

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'It's not easy being a mother'

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"It's not easy being a mother. If it were easy, fathers would do it." [more]

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Age is everything for kids but means nothing for adults

How old are they? That's usually the first thing people ask when they meet our daughters for the first time.

When someone meets our daughters for the first time, the No. 1 question is always, "How old are they?"

Somewhere on the journey from childhood to adulthood, however, this question about age goes from most important to among the least important. [more]

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Parents, what's your ideal date night?

It's almost midnight and Andreas and I just came home from a lovely date night.

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'I love to cut things!'

Our 3-year-old was very proud of this "crown" she cut out all by herself. It was one of dozens of shapes she cut out yesterday after learning how to use scissors for the first time.

Our 3-year-old has a new obsession. Scissors. [more]

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Sleeping Beauty brings peace to the house

"Look, I'm Sleeping Beauty!"

On Saturday, our oldest daughter turned into Sleeping Beauty.

Zee was tickled, because Princess Aurora, a.k.a. Sleeping Beauty, was her favorite Disney princess when she was a little girl. I was tickled too, because I soon realized that there were some benefits to this situation. [more]

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Five things I don't want them to learn from me

New York, with its Times Square, is one of my favorite places to visit. I want our daughters to travel too, as long as they come back home.

The other day, I thought about the random mix of genes Zee and I have passed on to our two children and how we can only hope that they got all the good ones and none of the bad ones.

Character, on the other hand, has nothing to do with genes. It's learned. Here's a list of five things that are part of my character that I'd rather not pass on to our kids. [more]

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Learning to live with a lefty

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Our youngest daughter is left-handed. This realization struck me with great clarity as I was cleaning up after our daughters used watercolors yesterday and I was wondering why our youngest had made such a mess.

Then it dawned on me. I had set the watercolors up for a right-handed person. [more]

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Looking for good family picnic spots

Our beach picnic dinner today at Ko Olina was a mix of food brought from home and a couple of Happy Meals from McDonald's.

We're having a lot of picnics nowadays. Today, we decided to have a beach picnic and drove out to one of the Ko Olina lagoons for an early dinner.

Most of our picnics take place in our neighborhood park. After today's beach picnic, though, I was thinking that maybe we should go beyond the park setting more often. What are some good picnic spots here on O'ahu? Do you have a personal favorite? [more]

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